An obituary is a final tribute that captures the story of someone's life and offers comfort to those left behind. The right words can ease grief and celebrate lasting memories. They help family and friends feel connected during a painful time.

A thoughtfully written obituary also offers clarity about arrangements and a record of milestones that shaped a person's journey. At After, we believe in making this process simpler and more comforting. Families can focus on what matters most.

This article shares practical guidance and real-life obituary examples to help you write a tribute that truly honors your loved one's life.

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How to Write an Obituary Example That Truly Honors a Life

Writing an obituary can feel daunting, especially if you’ve never done it before. At its heart, an obituary shares a story that honors someone you love and helps others remember and celebrate their life. Here’s how to write one that feels genuine and meaningful.

Step 1. Begin with the Essentials

Open with the key details so readers know who has passed. These facts help family and friends connect the name to the person they knew.

This can include:

• Their full name, including nicknames or maiden names
• Their age at the time of death
• Date and place of death

2. Tell Their Story

Fill the obituary with details that show who your loved one was. You might include:

• Birthplace and places they lived
• Education, career, or military service
• Hobbies, interests, and passions
• Values they lived by or causes they supported
  

Small moments, like a love of gardening or a favorite saying, can help readers picture the person’s unique spirit.

3. Recognize Family and Loved Ones

Mention close family members who shaped your loved one’s life. Include spouses or partners, children, siblings, parents, grandchildren, and other significant relationships.

For example:

“She is survived by her husband, Michael, her two children, Ava and Julian, and her sister, Maria.”

4. Highlight Milestones and Achievements

You can include moments that brought joy or pride. Share career achievements, personal milestones, community involvement, or simple acts of kindness that left a lasting impression.

5. Share Service Information

Finally, you’ll want to let people know about upcoming services or gatherings. This includes:

• Date, time, and place of services
• Whether the service is private or open to the public
• Memorial preferences, like donations instead of flowers
  

If cremation has taken place, you could say, “A celebration of life will follow at a later date.”

Some Tone Tips To Remember

When you write an obituary, keep it personal by choosing details that paint a clear picture of your loved one's life. Focus on meaningful memories and the qualities that defined their character. This helps readers feel connected to the person behind the words.

Use language that feels natural and easy to understand. Avoid complicated phrases that might distance people from the story. Above all, share from the heart. Let love and gratitude shine through as you reflect on your loved one's life.

When you feel ready, you can find free obituary templates and examples from After to guide you through the next steps. These are some examples of obituaries that you can refer to as you write your own.

Sample of Obituary for a Parent

#1 Issac F. Cross

Issac F. Cross, age 93, passed away June 13, 2025 at Perkins Country Manor in Augusta, Kentucky.

He was born March 3, 1932 , in Olive Hill, Kentucky, a son of the late Walter and Ruby Whitaker Cross.

Issac served his country in the United States Army for 8 years, served during the Korean and later settled in Phoenix, Arizona, where he started his Air Craft Engineer business. He was a Certified Aerospace Inspector, a Private Pilot, a professional guitar player and enjoyed playing for everyone at the family reunions.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his first wife, Carol Oriwig Cross; second wife, Linda Scharff; one son, Tim Cross; four brothers, Walter, Joe, Milton, Eugene; six sisters, Margaret, Virginia, Georgia, Essie, Emma and Billie.

He is survived by two sons, Mike Cross of Olive Hill, Kentucky, Randy Cross of Columbus, Ohio; two step-sons, Greg (Teresa) Scharff of Olathe, Kansas, Taylor Scharff (Karen) of Moran, Kansas; one step-daughter, Teresa Scharff (Chris) Barnard of Rose Hill, Kansas; 3 grandchildren.

Cody Cross, Alishia Hensley, Michael Hensley; 10 step-grandchildren; 24 step-great-grandchildren; 1 step-great-great-grandchild, along with many other family and friends who will sadly miss him.

At the family’s request there will be no service at this time. Globe Funeral Chapel is honored to serve the family of Issac F. Cross.

#2 Eduardo Rueda

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Eduardo Rueda, a man of boundless energy and intelligence. Eduardo was born on February 21, 1931, and transitioned out of this life on November 25, 2024. Through his journey of 93 years, he touched many lives with his wisdom, humor and an unwavering spirit of perseverance.

Driven by an endless thirst for knowledge, Eduardo was a lifelong learner and a devoted teacher. He had a passion for discovering new things and the unswerving pursuit of truth. This spirit which characterized his life translated into lessons he earnestly imparted onto those around him.

Among the many milestones of his well-lived life, Eduardo marked the year 2003 with immense pride. He became a proud citizen of the United States, a feat that underscored his determination and tenacity. This achievement is but one example that highlights his ability to inspire others by overcoming challenges with fortitude.

Eduardo's legacy of humor, perseverance, and learning will be carried forward by those who had the privilege of knowing him. His remarkable life will forever be an inspiration, a testament to the power of an indomitable spirit enthused with curiosity and resilience. 

He will be greatly missed and forever remembered.

He is survived by his loving children, Irene Rueda, Maria Galizi( Vincent), Eduardo Rueda Jr., and granddaughter Isabella, who were the lights  of his life. We extend our heartfelt sympathies to the family and all who mourn Eduardo's departure.

A memorial service celebrating Eduardo's exceptional life will be held on December 9, 2024, at 12:00 AM at Nathaniel Witherell. We invite all who knew and loved Eduardo to join us in honoring his memory.

In lieu of flowers, we encourage you to honor Eduardo's legacy of learning and teaching by seeking out new knowledge, pushing beyond the boundaries of the known, and sharing these insights with others. This, we believe, would be the best tribute to his extraordinary life.

#3 Marilyn H. Harr

Marilyn H. Harr, age 85 of Olive Hill, KY, went home to be with the Lord on Wednesday, May 28, 2025, at Community Hospice Care Center in Ashland, KY, after a brief illness.

She was born August 20, 1939, in Morehead, KY, a daughter of the late Allie Russell Hargett and Effie Marie Evans Hargett.

For over 45 years, Marilyn served the Carter County School System, where she taught 5th grade for ten years and served as a central office administrator for more than 35 years, retiring as Director of Federal Programs.

Her ability to make learning fun and meaningful left a lasting impact—several of her former students followed in her footsteps, becoming teachers because of the joy she brought to their school experience.

Marilyn loved to frequent thrift stores and antique stores, collecting meaningful pieces over the years that she proudly displayed in her home. She was a member of Soldier Church of God and found joy in both her church family and singing in the choir.

In addition to her parents, Marilyn was preceded in death by her husband of 61 years, Arnie Jean “A.J.” Harr. She was also preceded in death by her two brothers and two sisters-in-law, Allie Russell Hargett Jr. and his wife Barbara, Earnie Lee Hargett and his wife Janie, and one brother-in-law, Herman Butts.

Marilyn is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Drs. Shannon Harr and Dalia Smith-Harr of Olive Hill. She is also survived by two sisters and a brother-in-law, Fern Butts of Olive Hill, and Lyda Russell and her husband Dan of Lexington.

She leaves behind special friends Dayton Porter, Delores Thomas, and Barbara King, as well as a special neighbor, Jeff Brown. In addition, Marilyn is remembered by many extended family members and friends who will deeply miss her.

Funeral services will be held Saturday, May 31st at 1:00 PM at Globe Funeral Chapel in Olive Hill, KY, with Rev. Dan Russell, Rev. Tippy Price, and Brother Byron Hargett officiating. Burial will follow in the Hargett Cemetery in Olive Hill, KY. Friends and family may visit Saturday, May 31st from 11:00 until the time of funeral service at Globe Funeral Chapel, 17277 West Highway US 60, Olive Hill, KY.

Pallbearers are Keith Hargett, Dennis Hargett, Anthony Hargett, Scott Fultz, Ryan Russell, and Alex Russell. Honorary pallbearers are the Soldier Church of God ladies as well as Joann Smith, Barbara King, Sherry Stamper, Aline Petitt, Roxanne Wagoner, Rosalee Thomas, and Deanna Hargett.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made in Marilyn’s memory to Community Hospice Care Facility, 2330 Pollard Road, Ashland, KY 41101.

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#4 Isabel Cabrera

Isabel Cabrera, 71, of NYC, NY, passed away on January 01, 2023 after a long battle with lung disease. She fought like a warrior.

Isabel was born in El Pocito, Guayubin provincia de Monte Cristi Dominican Republic. She married Miguel Acosta and had two surviving children, Railon and Niurca Acosta. She dedicated her life to being a fantastic and wonderful mother. She made it her mission to improve the lives of others.

Isabel was passionate, warm and kind. We will miss her greatly. She is survived by her sisters, brothers, nieces/nephews, children and her grandchildren (many of whom she raised).

Currently wake in NY is scheduled for Friday 1/13/2023 at 5pm-8pm at Rivera Funeral Home Inc in 1260 St Nicholas Ave, New York.

#5 Dennis Vernon Stephens

Dennis Vernon Stephens, age 73, of Olive Hill, Kentucky, passed away Thursday, May 15, 2025, at his residence.

He was born Sunday, December 9, 1951, in Carter County, Kentucky, a son of the late Jim Harve and Myrtle Binion Stephens.

Dennis proudly served his country in the United State Army for 3 years and 21 years in National Guards. He enjoyed fishing, mushroom hunting, camping, sitting around the fire pit, cookouts and spending time with his family.

In addition to his parents was preceded in death by four brothers, George Stephens, Dee Stephens, Freeman Stephens and Garner Stephens; two sisters, Dessie Cline and Mina Hamilton.

Dennis is survived by his loving wife of 53 years, Donna Miller Stephens; one son, Christopher Den Stephens (Vonda Soter) of Columbus, Ohio; one daughter, Wendi (Jennings) Blevins of Grayson, Kentucky;

5 grandchildren, Cody Viars, Austin Viars, Kameron Viars, Tyler Viars, Baylee Viars; great-granddaughter, Malia Viars; one brother, Donald Stephens, along with many other family and friends who will sadly miss him.

Funeral services will be held 1 p.m., Tuesday, May 20, 2025, at Globe Funeral Chapel, 17277 West US Hwy 60, Olive Hill, Kentucky, with Brother Billy Sammons officiating. Burial will follow in the Watson Cemetery in Olive Hill, Kentucky.

Friends may visit after 11:30 a.m. until the service hour Tuesday, May 20, 2025, at Globe Funeral Chapel. Mike Stephens, Jennings Blevins, Cody Viars, Austin Viars, Kameron Viars, Tyler Viars and Baylee Viars will serve as pallbearers. Chris Stephens and Wendi Blevins will serve as honorary pallbearers.

Obituary Example for a Sibling

#6 Josephine (Jaylynn) Lynn Cancilliere Mason

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Josephine (Jaylynn) Lynn Cancilliere Mason on June 22, 2025, at the age of 62. Jaylynn was born and raised in Phoenix, Arizona, and lived a life marked by compassion, strength, and deep devotion to her family.

After being diagnosed with stage three lung cancer, Jaylynn fought with unwavering courage and grace. She spent 27 dedicated years working for CIGNA Healthcare, where she was known for her work ethic, kindness, and commitment to others.

Jaylynn was the proud and loving mother of three children—Summer Cancilliere, Charles Barbour, and Matthew Mason—whom she lived her life for.

She was also a cherished grandmother to three wonderful grandchildren: CJ, Maddie, and Hailey. Jaylynn shared a close bond with her sister, Lisa Desanti, who stood by her through every chapter of life.

Jaylynn touched the lives of everyone who had the honor of knowing her. Her selflessness, warmth, and generous spirit will be remembered forever. She leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and compassion that lives on in all of us.

Services to honor Jaylynn’s life will be held on Thursday, July 3rd at Saint James Roman Catholic Parish: 19640 N 35th Ave, Glendale, AZ

#7 Ruth Kinnear

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Mrs. Ruth "Ruthie" Kinnear (Schukar), known to many simply as Ruth. Born in 1957, Ruth left us on the 10th of July, 2024, In Englewood Co, leaving a void that can never be filled. With Ruth's departure, we remember a life lived with immense love and a constant sense of caring.

Ruth was predeceased by her husband, Morris Kinnear, whom she married in 1994, her brother, Gene Schukar, and her parents, Mary and Purl Schukar. She is survived by her daughter, Mary Kinnear, her grandson, Adrian Meyer, and granddaughter, Sheyenne York.

Her grandson, Branson Meyer, son-in-law, Anthony Meyer, and siblings Jane Fox, Joseph Schukar, Peggy Cruickshank, and Ilene Kuenning are left to continue her legacy. She also leaves behind her niece, Samantha Fox, and nephew, Wayne Kuenning.

Ruth had a palate for simple and comforting food and drink, with favorites including potato chips, hominy, strawberries, diet soda, and coffee. Her taste in music was a reflection of her vibrant personality, with Elvis Presley, Dolly Parton, and the Beatles providing the soundtrack to her life.

She found joy in the worlds created by the Jurassic Park and Van Helsing film franchises, and could often be found wheeling around in her wheelchair or playing a competitive game of Monopoly.

She held a deep affection for spending time with her grandchildren and immersing himself in films. Her favorite local haunt was the library, a testament to his lifelong pursuit of knowledge. A beautiful soul who cared deeply about kindness and believed in God, Ruth was most pleased when she saw others spreading love and care.

Ruth's preference for the color purple was indicative of her rich, royal character - loving, caring, perhaps a tad crazy, and always happy. The greatest lesson she shared with us is the importance of kindness and the act of showing love to one another.

Some of Ruth's significant accomplishments include her graduation from Graceland College and his fulfilling career as a teacher. However, the roles she cherished most were those of a mother and later a grandmother. He leaves us with a legacy to strive to do better and to be kind to others.

Ruth's presence will be sorely missed, especially her surprising visits asking about her drink, her choice of film for the night, her warm hugs, and those caring check-up calls. We let go of a remarkable woman, a loving mother, a doting grandmother, and a kind soul. As we mourn her loss, we also celebrate the love, joy, and kindness that were the essence of Ruth's being.

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#8 George 'Little George' Eugene Gilbert

George Eugene (Little George) Gilbert, age 38, of Olive Hill, Kentucky, passed away Saturday, May 10, 2025, in Grahn, Kentucky. He was born June 27, 1986, in Black Shear, Georgia, a son of Karen Mauk Gilbert and the late Elijah (George) Gilbert.

George enjoyed working on cars, mushroom hunting, spending time with friends and taking his dog, Shorty, everywhere he went.

George is survived by two daughters, Kylie Gilbert of Grayson, Kentucky, and Haylee McGuire of Olive Hill, Kentucky; one sister, Angie Mabry of Grayson, Kentucky, along with many other family and friends who will sadly miss him.

Funeral services will be held 11 a.m., Friday, May 16, 2025, at Globe Funeral Chapel, 17277 West US Hwy 60, Olive Hill, Kentucky, with Brother Jason Lewis officiating. Burial will follow in the Gilbert Family Cemetery in Barker Flatts, Olive Hill, Kentucky.

Friends may visit from 6 p.m. until 8 p.m., Thursday, May 15, 2025 and 9 a.m. until the service hour Friday, May 16, 2025 at Globe Funeral Chapel. Donnie Callihan, CD Leadingham, Jacob Nunley, Darren Gilbert, Wayne Mays, and Todd Rodgers will serve as pallbearers.

#9 Geraldine Oliver

Geraldine “P” Oliver was born on January 12, 1998, in Miami, Florida, to Whitney Mirage Oliver and George Oliver. She was the oldest of her siblings. She genuinely loved everyone and showed her love by giving hugs. Geraldine received her education through the Miami-Dade county public schools system where she was to graduate from Miami Central Senior High in 2016.

While in school. She shined on the cheerleading team and volleyball court. Right before graduation, things took a turn, but Geraldine made the best out of every situation. She went on to receive her high school diploma from the Department of Education. After completing her debt, she returned to society to go on with her big dreams.

Geraldine received her commercial driver’s license and started a career as a truck driver. Geraldine held several jobs in the past 5 years, from bakery driver to sanitation driver. Her final truck driving job was with Tru Testimony Transport.

It provided her the opportunity to travel across the country. This brought her peace, happiness, and reminded her of the many family road trips taken as a child.

For fun, Geraldine loved to compete in various games with friends and family. For those who know, you know she loved slapping dominoes on the table, shooting shops, racing and sending people home after challenging her in chess. Every game she played was a friendly competition. She also loved fishing even though she hated fish with bones in them.

On June 2, 2023, Geraldine “P” Oliver departed from life. She leaves behind a lifetime of memories to her parents, Whitney Oliver and George Oliver; grandmothers, Blanche Edward and Marian Barnhill; girlfriend , Michaels Cherry;

Four siblings, O’Daesha Barrett, Kingston Oliver, Mary Wright And Clide Mitchell; nieces, Victoria Covington, Noami Velazquez, and Laila Velazquez; great nephew, Keddrick Ford Jr.; and a host of loving uncles, aunts, cousins, and friends.

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#10 Beverly Ann Paris (née King)

Beverly Ann Paris, née King, relinquished her earthly body on January 9, 2022, listening to her favorite music and surrounded by her husband and daughters.

She was born to parents Barabara Jean King, née Rouse, and Robert Lee King Sr. on March 27, 1964, in Fort Pierce, Florida. The family later relocated to Fort Lauderdale, Florida by way of Bryant, Florida. She was baptized at an early age at Mount Carmel Missionary Baptist Church in Ft. Lauderdale, FL.

She graduated from Boyd Anderson High school in 1982 and received a Bachelor of Arts degree in Sociology from Bethune Cookman College in 1986. Immediately after college, she joined the United States Army. 

She fought in Operations Desert Fox in 1998, completed a tour-of-duty in Korea and a tour-of-duty in Germany. She proudly served her country for over 15 years, rising to the rank of Seargent (E5) and earning numerous medals and challenge coins.

While in the service, she met and married Roderick Paris on June 9, 1989. They lived in different locations throughout their military career, finally settling in New Llano, Louisiana where she retired at Fort Polk.

Beverly is survived by her two daughters: Tiffany and Robyn Paris, of Dallas, Texas. Sisters: Rosena Bivins, Linda Skipwith, Angela King Crew. Brothers: Robert King Jr., Michael King Sr., Darryl King. Mother-in-Law: Ruthie Mae Paris. Brothers-in-Law: Ronald Paris (Taneka), Tony Paris (Patricia) (Gina Jones), and Johnnie Mitchell. Sisters-in-Law: Theresa Taylor (Clarence).

She is also survived by her three grandchildren: Paris, Maxx, and Luka of Dallas, Texas; a host of god-children, and a host of nieces and nephews, other relatives, and friends. Beverly was predeceased by her loving father, Robert Lee King Sr. in 1996.

Beverly was a star athlete, a great friend, and the life of every party. In school, she ran track for Fort Lauderdale Track Club, Everglades Middle, and Boyd Anderson High school.

While at Bethune, she joined the ROTC, danced for the Mighty Wildcats Basketball dance team, Fast Break, and was a proud supporter of the O.E. Chapter of Omega Psi Phi as a Que-essence.

Beverly loved her family and every person she met immediately became family to her. She was very uplifting and fun whenever you needed a friend or a laugh she was there for you.

“She could make the sunshine when there were clouds.” She even had the general’s wives dropping it like it’s hot. She leaves behind nothing but beautiful fond memories of love, laughter, and life.

A memorial celebrating the life of Beverly Ann Paris and her military accomplishments will take place via Zoom on Sunday, March 27, 2022. Some of her ashes will be scattered alongside her father, Robert Lee King Sr. in Fort Pierce.

#11 Gary Douglas Ingraham

Gary Douglas Ingraham, 73, of Glendale, South Carolina, passed away peacefully at his home on May 2nd, surrounded by his best friends and family.

Born on June 12th, 1951, in Potsdam, New York, Gary lived a life marked by kindness, generosity, and unwavering devotion to those he loved. A proud United States Air Force veteran, Gary served his country with honor and carried that same spirit of service into every aspect of his life.

He was known to many simply as “Pops” or “Papa Gary”—a testament to the deep affection and respect he inspired in all who knew him. Gary had a heart of gold and was always just a phone call away, ready to lend a hand or a listening ear.

He is survived by his best friends and brothers in life, Bruce Jackson and Dexter Bridges and Paul Smith; his stepmother, Judith Ingraham; and his sisters, Judy Gilman and Debby Givenrod.

Gary was also a proud grandfather figure to his adopted grandchildren: Bruce Z. Jackson, Nancy Jackson, and Jesse Owens. He shared a special bond with Renetta Nichols and was loved by countless others whose lives he touched.

A private memorial service will be held at a later date to honor Gary’s life and legacy.

Gary will be deeply missed but forever remembered for the love he gave so freely and the light he brought to the lives around him.

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#12 Albert Anthony Kwasinski

Albert Anthony Kwasinski, age 83, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 28, 2025 at Holy Rosary Hospital with his son Albert Jr. by his side. Al was three weeks short of being a 25-year survivor of lung cancer, a fact that amazed the VA medical staff.

Al was born August 17, 1941, to Albert M. and Gertrude (Piotroski) Kwasinski in Chicago, Illinois. He attended James Monroe Grammar School and Carl Schurz High School, enlisting in the Air Force in 1962. He was stationed at the Glasgow Air Force Base until 1966. While in Glasgow, Montana, he met and married Sharon (Kookie) Terry in 1964.

After receiving his honorable discharge he worked for Glasgow Office Supply, Thirud Office Supply in Sidney, Montana, Kenny Office Machines in Bozeman, Montana and Star Office Machines in Billings, Montana before settling in Miles City and opening his own business Lazy Letters Office Machines which he operated until 2000 when being diagnosed with lung cancer forcing him to retire.

Al enjoyed being outdoors, fishing and/or hunting whenever and wherever he could, including a bear hunting trip and fishing trips to Canada. He was known to take out-of-state friends hunting and fishing on a yearly basis for several years.

He enjoyed trap shooting while living in Glasgow and Miles City. In Miles City he was active with the Moose Lodge. He especially enjoyed bowling and traveling with their bowling team, having Ernie Bighorn Sr. for a partner.

Shooting pool on the Thursday night league was another favorite pastime, being one of the older players of the group, he let the young ones know age didn't matter.

Al was very active with the Masonic Lodge and its related organizations, holding offices in several of them and helping out in their activities, running the popcorn popper for the Rainbow Girls at the fair food booth, helping with Shrine Circuses and selling onions and helping and then running the Shoes for Kids program for the Masons.

After his retirement in 2000 he was a volunteer driver for the VA, logging in over 100,000 miles helping move patients from eastern Montana and western North Dakota to and from medical appointments. He helped Bunny Miller with the Christmas Store for many years and then took it over when she decided to retire.

Al is survived by his wife Sharon, his son Albert Jr. and his wife Tara of Great Falls, MT and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents Albert and Gertrude Kwasinski of Chicago, Illinois, his sister Rita (John) Rogers of New Hampshire, brother Roberg (Gayle) Kwasinski of Albany, Mississippi and brother Ronald of Chicago, Illinois.

#13 Jerry Potter

Jerry Lee Potter, 83, passed away peacefully on June 26, 2025, in Ponte Vedra, Florida. Born on December 26, 1941, in War, West Virginia, Jerry lived a full and meaningful life marked by dedication to his family, service to his country, and a long-standing professional career.

Jerry proudly served in the United States Army as part of the 4th Infantry Division. His military service was a formative chapter in his life, and he was honorably discharged. Following his time in the Army, Jerry completed his higher education and earned a Bachelor of Science degree from East Tennessee State University.

He went on to build a successful career with Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Florida, where he worked for 35 years. His commitment and work ethic left a lasting impression on colleagues and contributed significantly to the organization's mission over more than three decades.

He is survived by his loving Life Partner, Marie Foster who beautifully cared for him at home until his last breath. Jerry was one of ten children and is survived by two sisters, Helen Davis and Priscilla Donaldson (John).

He also leaves behind his son Garrett Potter (Nicole), daughter Elizabeth and her husband, his two beloved granddaughters, Melito Brito and Addison Potter as well as 11 bonus grandchildren who all adored their Papa Jerry.

Outside of his professional life, Jerry found joy in many pastimes. He had a lifelong love for golf, softball and dancing. He could often be found watching SEC football and PGA golf-activities that brought him both relaxation and excitement.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Camp Weed Scholarships online at Campweed.org, a cause close to the family's heart.

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#14 Jennifer A. Boondas

Jennifer Boondas, born in New York City on March 7, 1925, has passed away on June 26, 2025, at age 100. Jennifer was the third of four daughters born to Photios and Stella Boondas, both from Messenia, Greece.

Jennifer devoted her life to her nursing career, the majority of which she spent serving in the US Public Health Service. Among many interesting assignments, Jenny enjoyed her USPH service on the Wind River Reservation in Wyoming in the 1950's, assisting in providing health care to members of several indigenous tribes.

She gained their trust allowing her to succeed in administering modern life-saving tuberculosis treatment to those suffering from the illness on the reservation.

As a nursing educator, she authored articles and edited publications on the topic of elder care, and was at times active in attempted restructuring of US healthcare policy.

Jenny is predeceased by her three sisters, Catherine Boondas Cover, Mary Boondas Laren, and Olga Boondas Brown, as well as niece Themis Brown and brothers-in-law Stuart Cover, Kuno Laren, and Constantine Brown.

She is survived by her nieces and nephews, Mary Louise (née Cover) DeNardo (James), John Cover (Mary Ann), Inga (née Laren) Lamonaca, Guy Laren, Philip Laren, Anders Laren (Cara), and many grand and great-grand nieces and nephews.

Jennifer's cremains will be interred at Pine Lawn Memorial Cemetery in East Farmingdale, New York.

#15 Robert J. Petrovia, Jr.

Robert “Bob” J. Petrovia Jr., 66, passed away peacefully at home on June 25, 2025, in Langhorne, Pennsylvania, surrounded by the love of his family. Bob was the devoted husband of Michelle (Miele) Petrovia and proud father to Arianna, Aprille, and Brandon.

He was a beloved brother to Debra Dimico (Donald), Tina Mousley, Mark Petrovia (Deborah), Tracey Olszewski (Douglas), and Heather Kimble, and the cherished son of the late Robert and Jacqueline Petrovia.

A U.S. Air Force veteran, Bob served his country with pride for five years. After his service, he went on to build and run his own successful family business, RJ Automotive, for 31 years.

Bob had a love for life that was infectious. Whether he was kayaking, zip lining, snorkeling, or swimming with dolphins, he was always seeking out new experiences and adventures. He especially cherished beach trips to Melbourne, Florida, watching the sunset with his family.

He was a man of many passions—from blasting his favorite rock music (with a little jazz on Sunday mornings), to reading thrillers and watching horror movies with his daughter. He was a lifelong Philadelphia Eagles fan and was thrilled to see them win the Super Bowl this year.

Bob had a quick wit, a generous heart, and a knack for making everyone laugh. He was known for his practical jokes, big personality, and unwavering dedication to those he loved. He was incredibly organized, detail-oriented, and took great pride in doing things the right way.

Holidays with family were among his favorite times, and he especially looked forward to participating in the annual Toys for Tots event—a tradition he held close to his heart.

Bob’s legacy of laughter, loyalty, and love will be carried on by those who knew and adored him. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in Bob's memory to Toys for Tots.

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#16 Nancy Ardila Bottoms

Nancy Ardila Bottoms, 62, of Taylor Mill, passed away peacefully Saturday, June 28, 2025, at home, with her family by her bedside.  She was born November 17, 1962, in Bogota, Colombia, the daughter of Hilda Pacheco Ardila and the late Luis Ardila.  She was a Federal Investigator with the U.S. Department of Justice and formerly with the Drug Enforcement Agency (DEA).

She was married February 13, 1993, to David M. Bottoms, who survives.  Also surviving are two daughters Sophia Landers (Nicholas) and Julia Kain (Wyatt); brother Luis Ardila (Cassandra); sisters Claudia Castle (James); and Alexandria Granja (Cesar).  

Funeral services will be held 1 PM Tuesday, July 1, 2025, at the Floral Hills Funeral Home, Chapel A, with Jeremy Ellis officiating.  Visitation will be Tuesday from 11-1 PM.  Burial will be private at Floral Hills Memorial Gardens.  Floral Hills is honored to serve the Bottoms family.

#17 Melton (Mel) Levin

Levin Melton (Mel) Passed away June 27, 2025 at the age of 79 from sepsis with kidney failure. Mel spent 40 years as a teacher/administrator with the School District of Philadelphia. He was appointed the first computer science teacher and was the recipient of the Rose Lindenbaum Excellence in Education award.

He loved traveling almost as much as his E-A-G-L-E-S!!!! He is survived by his wife, Nancy, son Troy Levin (Kimberly), daughter Shanon Levin (Ryan), grandchildren Macy and Zachary Levin, stepsons Steve Smith (Stephanie) and Mark Smith (Meggan). 

Relatives and friends are invited to Funeral Services at GOLDSTEINS' ROSENBERG'S FUNERAL DIRECTORS, 6410 N. Broad St., Philadelphia, PA 19126. Monday at 10 A.M. precisely.

Contributions in his memory may be made to the American Kidney Fund, 11921 Rockville Pike, Suite 300, Rockville, MD 20852.

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#18 Brandon Douglas Jacobs

Brandon Douglas Jacobs, 50, of Jacksonville, FL, passed away on Tuesday, June 24, 2025, after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born May 26, 1975, in Provo, UT, to Douglas Earl Jacobs and Linda Louise Walker Jacobs.

Brandon was the only son of Doug and Linda and a beloved brother to five sisters. He grew up in a home centered on faith, learning, and family, which shaped his character, values, and pursuits throughout his life.

From a young age, Brandon was known for his quick mind, deep curiosity, informed wit, and quiet kindness. He earned the rank of Eagle Scout, a reflection of his perseverance, leadership, and commitment to doing good.

A tenacious student, Brandon graduated from Fort Vancouver High School and went on to study at Ricks College, Utah State University, Cal Tech and Peking University in Beijing, China.

He then earned a Master’s in Philosophy from Cambridge University in the UK, where he had a full ride scholarship, played varsity basketball and became a member of the Hawks’ Club. These achievements reflected both his intellectual prowess and adventurous spirit.

He was passionate about his faith, family, and friends—and he cared deeply about his country, was well-rounded in politics, and passionate about sports, math, cooking, health, and fitness.

Brandon was adventurous, often saying, “Let’s do it.” He was fearless, and traveled to more than 40 countries, conversing in multiple languages and making friends around the world.

Brandon worked in a variety of fields during his lifetime, including sales, consulting, and international business. He brought excellence and integrity to every endeavor. Friends and family relied on his insights and trusted his judgment.

Faith in Jesus Christ was a quiet but steady part of Brandon’s life. He served a mission in Helsinki, Finland for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Throughout his life, he found strength in the gospel and maintained a personal devotion that was steady, humble, and sincere. He held various callings and was always willing to serve without seeking attention or praise.

Despite many health challenges, Brandon remained resilient, independent, and grateful. He found joy in meaningful conversation, reading, traveling, and staying connected to family and friends. Brandon was both meticulous and spontaneous, thoughtful and principled.

He had exceptional taste and never wasted time or money on anything low quality. He was present for—and often the heart of—our most cherished memories, and he will be deeply missed in all the milestones to come.

Brandon is survived by his mother, Linda Jacobs of Mapleton, UT; and his five sisters: Shannon (Adam) Hoover of Chino, CA; Kamie (Allen) Bolen of Highland, UT; Kristie (Ryan) Barnhurst of Culpeper, VA; Amber Jacobs of Provo, UT; and Laura (Michael) Holley of Mapleton, UT.

He is also survived by sixteen nieces and nephews who adored him. He was preceded in death by his father, Douglas Earl Jacobs.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to all who supported Brandon during his illness—especially the exceptional doctors and staff at Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, who gave him the best hope and care.

"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart."

—Proverbs 3:5

Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, July 1, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at 11162 North Alpine Highway, Highland, Utah. A viewing will be held that morning from 9:00 to 10:30 a.m. Services are under the care of Wheeler & Sundberg Funeral Homes of Springville, Utah.

#19 Judith Neilson

Neilson Judith (nee Rawle) August 26, 1928 - June 13, 2025 Age 86, of Concord, MA, beloved mother and grandmother, passed away peacefully on June 13, 2025, surrounded by family. Judy (or "Bean" as she was affectionately known) was happiest surrounded by her five children and fourteen grandchildren.

Her dinner table was endlessly expandable, her home was a haven for all who entered, and her grandchildren loved assisting her in her beautiful gardens. As one said, "We all were special to Bean. That's the essence of Beanie-she cared so deeply for the people around her... We are so deeply lucky."

Apart from her family, Judy's greatest pride was her three decades with the Singing City Choir, a Philadelphia institution dedicated to peace and justice through music.

For Judy, the transcendent power of singing with people from all walks of life was a weekly balm she knew the world needed. Born to Marshall and Theodora Rawle, Judy attended Miss Porter's School and Radcliffe College, where her lifelong love for choral music blossomed.

It was at a choir audition that she met Benjamin Neilson; they married and settled on Philadelphia's Main Line to raise their five children. Though their marriage ended in divorce, their children remained her emotional center.

Judy's professional life began in 1973 and was dedicated to helping others, first as a clinical social worker at the Women's Suburban Clinic and later as hospice worker and marriage counselor in private practice.

She earned a Master's degree from Bryn Mawr College School of Social Work. In 2005, she retired to Concord, MA to be near family, becoming an active volunteer and supporter of Open Table.

In her final years at the Gardens at Newbury Court, she continued to foster community, always caring for others and appreciating the amazing care she received.

She is survived by her children and their spouses: Jamie and Stephanie Neilson; Theo Neilson; Johanna and John Boynton; Alberta Neilson and Peter Mundy; and Elizabeth Neilson, widow of her son Marshall who passed away in 2016, and her husband Kip Curtiss.

She is also survived by her brother, David Rawle, and his wife, Carol Perkins. Her fourteen grandchildren will forever cherish their Bean. Judy's legacy is her family, the joy of togetherness, and the music of lives lived in harmony.

A Service will be held at First Parish in Concord, MA on November 15th. Gifts in her memory may be made to Singing City Choir (www.singingcity.org) or Open Table (www.opentable.org).

Faith-Based and Cultural Obituary Examples

#20 James Edwards Mills

Fisherman, husband, son, father, grandfather, friend, U.S. Public Health Service Captain, and founder of “Raven Fork Rods” James Edwards Mills,84, of Whittier, NC, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 16, after a brief and sharp bout with cancer.

Jim spent his days in constant motion—from his youth on an Eastern North Carolina tobacco farm to his days in the Great Smoky Mountains, rising early with his beloved black lab by his side and working tirelessly into the evening. Work and service were his salve and brought meaning to his life.

Jim joined the U.S. Public Health Service Indian Health Service in 1964, serving Native American tribes nationwide—first as a pharmacist and then leading the building, design, and modernization of health clinics on reservations east of the Mississippi River.

In the late sixties, while still working as a pharmacist, Jim was instrumental in securing grants to improve vaccination and sanitation infrastructure on the Qualla Boundary.

This holistic approach to improving healthcare led to his critical work in helping establish the Cherokee Indian Hospital in 1980. In appreciation for all these efforts, Jim was named an honorary member of the Eastern Band of Cherokee Indians.

Grounded in his faith, Jim shared it in big ways and small. Prayers were ever on his lips and in his heart for those he encountered, often spontaneously joining friends and strangers in lifting requests heavenward.

He was a faithful prayer partner to many close friends and family members.

Jim also was a decades-long member of the Gideons, participated in the Walk to Emmaus, served as a deacon and Sunday Schoolteacher at Bryson City First Baptist Church, and sung in church choirs throughout his life.

Nothing was more important to Jim than community. He loved people and built close relationships with everyone—creating bonds of mutual respect and love through inquiry, listening, laughter, storytelling, empathy, caring, and generosity. Jim shared gifts of food, time, work, and instruction with many.

You were blessed and loved when you received a fresh mess of fish, his famous fudge, pecan brittle, chicken and rice soup, or summer tomatoes. Always a special time was steaming fresh oysters with friends in Ronnie Henderson’s garage.

His greatest joy and many of his deepest relationships revolved around fishing. Intimacy with nature was his prayer of gratitude. His passion was unraveling the ongoing puzzle of catching fish through experimentation and invention.

At a young age, he fished, crabbed, and set nets in the creeks and rivers of Eastern North Carolina with his parents, later learning to fly fish the streams of the Smokies with his father-in-law, Med Messer, and his wife’s uncle, Red Nolen.

He built lifelong friendships camping and fishing the Appalachians with Kenny Blankenship, Eddie Almond, and the rest of the Bone Valley gang.

A special joy was found in annual October fishing trips to Montana where he fished for the much sought-after Montana Derby with Tom Underwood and an extended circle of friends from Western North Carolina.

Jim also adored fishing western waters with his son Chris. In recent years, Jim took up fishing nymphs in deeper water. Experimenting with new fly-tying materials and methods with local fishing buddies Jim Estes and Gene Sutton brought many hours of creativity and joy.

Jim loved mornings spent with friends cooking freshly caught fish on the creek bank. Jim also ran his own fly rod building and repair business, “Raven Fork Rods,” where he made nearly 3,000 glass, bamboo, and fiberglass rods over the last 60 years.

Jim is preceded in death by his parents, James Junior Mills and Vivian Edwards Mills of Greenville, NC. He is survived by his beloved wife Barbara of 64 years, children Chris (Jennifer) and Marissa (Bronson) and grandchildren: Jordan (Cam) and Emery.

#21 Gerald Flohr

Gerald Jeffery "Jeff" Flohr, a cherished educator, community activist, and beloved figure affectionately known as 'The Flag Man of Forest Hills,' passed away peacefully at home on June 26, 2025. His life was marked by a profound dedication to teaching, and a passion for history.

Jeff was the beloved and devoted husband of Jeanellen (Maglia) Flohr for 50 years.

He was the loving and cherished father of Jesse (Danielle Billinkoff) Flohr of Nashville and Jenna (Alex Taylor) Flohr of Pittsburgh. Jeff was the brother of Bernadette Flohr of Greentree, the late Patricia Brandon (late Bill) and the late Edward (late Ellen Jean) Flohr. Jeff is also survived by nieces and nephews.

Growing up in Greenfield, Jeff attended Central Catholic High School and was inspired to join the Christian Brothers in their mission of education.

He graduated from LaSalle University and taught in Philadelphia, Camp Hill, South Hills Catholic High School, St. Thomas High School in Braddock, Sacred Heart High School in Shadyside and finally, Oakland Catholic from where he retired at the age of 75.

But Jeff's dedication to education did not end with the school year; in the summer he taught tennis at the Dormont Pool, where he first met Jeanellen, and in retirement, he taught chess at local schools and at the Forest Hills Pool.

Outside the classroom, Jeff was known for his display of flags at his Forest Hills home. He flew flags of many countries and origins, each chosen with care to mark current global events or to commemorate significant occasions, particularly during Christmas and holidays. This quiet yet powerful gesture became a staple of the community, inspiring reflection and conversation among residents and visitors alike.

Jeff used his teaching skills in his faith as he was a volunteer for the Children's Liturgy at St. Maurice Church. His belief in civic engagement was evident in his volunteer work for political candidates, even going so far as to knocking on doors for those he felt could make a positive difference.

Jeff's lighter side was often on display during his favorite pastime, 'Garage Sailing.' He found joy in the thrill of the hunt, seeking out treasures among the myriad of garage sales he frequented, always looking for items he didn't have yet.

The legacy Jeff leaves behind is one of lifelong teaching and learning, kindness, and the pursuit of joy in the simple things. His passion was evident in every flag flown and lesson taught.

Friends are welcome on Tuesday from 3-7pm at Patrick T. Lanigan Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc., 700 Linden Ave. at Cable, East Pittsburgh, PA 15112, (412) 824-8800.

Comparison Guide: When and Where to Use Each

When you write an obituary, think about how and where you plan to share it. The right length and format help make sure your loved one’s story reaches the people who cared about them.

Short Obituaries

Short obituaries work best for newspapers with limited space, funeral home listings, or social media posts. These usually run from a few sentences to one short paragraph. They share the essential facts (name, age, date of death, immediate family, and funeral arrangements) while staying concise and respectful.

Consider a short obituary when:

• You have space limitations in print publications.
• You want a brief announcement on social media.
• You’re placing a simple listing on a funeral home’s website.

Longer Obituaries

Longer obituaries appear most often in online memorial pages, tribute websites, or personal blogs. They allow you to tell the full story of your loved one’s life, personality, and legacy. A longer piece might run several paragraphs or even a full page.

Choose a longer obituary when:

• You want to share personal stories, achievements, and special memories.
• You plan to link the obituary to photos, videos, or a guestbook.

Modern Obituary Formats

Photos, videos, and guest messages bring an obituary to life and help friends and family feel closer to the person they’ve lost. Adding visuals and shared memories allows people to remember the moments that defined a loved one’s story.

Consider including:

• Photos that show different stages of life, hobbies, or special occasions.
• Videos that capture important speeches, celebrations, or everyday moments.
• Guest comments where friends and family can share tributes, memories, or words of comfort.

Online platforms make it easier than ever to build a memorial that grows over time. Many families choose to create a digital space where people can visit, share stories, and keep a loved one’s memory alive.

After offers optional tools like DIY memorial video creation, included in plans such as the Summit package. These features help families create personalized tributes without feeling rushed or pressured. You can combine images, video clips, and music to craft a heartfelt video that celebrates a loved one’s life in a way that words alone sometimes cannot.

If you’d like to explore adding photos, videos, or guest messages to an obituary, the team at After can help guide you through these options, so you can build a tribute that truly honors your loved one’s memory.

Common Obituary Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

Even with the best intentions, certain writing habits can weaken an obituary’s impact. One common pitfall is relying on clichés, which can feel impersonal. Instead, choose specific details that show your loved one’s personality. For example:

• Cliché: “She loved life and lived it to the fullest.”
  
  
• Better: “She filled her days by caring for her three children, baking apple pies for neighbors, and exploring new hiking trails every weekend.”
  

Another mistake is leaving out key facts such as service details, family names, or significant milestones. Review your draft to make sure it answers who, what, when, and where.

Tone mismatches can also distract readers. An overly formal obituary might feel distant, while a casual one might lack respect. Aim for warmth and clarity, matching your loved one’s personality and the audience you’re writing for.

If you feel unsure, After’s caring team can help guide you through writing and reviewing an obituary that truly honors your loved one.

When and Where to Publish an Obituary

Think about how you want people to learn about your loved one’s passing. Local newspapers help you reach neighbors, friends, and community members who often look for print announcements. Newspapers, however, charge by the line or word and usually limit space, so keep entries brief and factual.

Online platforms let you write longer tributes and share photos, videos, or personal stories. Digital obituaries give family and friends a place to gather, leave messages, and revisit memories whenever they wish.

Families sometimes ask whether to publish an obituary before or after cremation. You can share the obituary right away if you’re planning a service soon, or you might wait until you schedule a memorial at a later date. Both options are completely fine, it depends on what feels right for you.

At After.com, every cremation package includes an online obituary listing. This makes it simple for families to share their loved one’s story and service details without pressure or deadlines.

Cremation and Obituaries: What to Include

When cremation is part of your loved one's arrangements, you can mention it directly in the obituary. This helps friends and family understand the plan.

You can write:

“Cremation has taken place, and a memorial service will follow at a later date.”

or

“The family will hold a private gathering after cremation and plan to celebrate his life this summer.”

Sharing this information sets clear expectations and helps people know how to pay their respects.

At After, the cremation-first model gives families space and time to plan memorials without feeling rushed. You can arrange cremation now and wait until later to gather loved ones for a service, celebration of life, or other tribute.

How After Supports You

Writing an obituary can feel like one more impossible task in the middle of loss. We know how much courage and love it takes to share someone's story. That's why we've built tools and support to help you honor your loved one's memory in the way that feels right for you.

Every cremation package from After includes an online obituary listing. Families can share stories, service details, and photos without feeling rushed or pressured. You can also explore keepsakes and memorial items through links on the obituaries page.

This gives you thoughtful ways to hold on to special memories. If you'd like to know exactly what cremation services cost, you can see transparent pricing here. We believe you deserve clarity and choice at every step.

After gives families more choice and less pressure during one of the hardest times in life. The cremation-first approach separates immediate care from later decisions. It offers you space to grieve and think clearly. Here’s how After helps:

• Simple cremation-first approach: Choose from three direct cremation packages starting at $995. Each plan includes transportation of your loved one, paperwork, a dedicated care specialist, and after-grief support so you can handle essentials without delay or confusion.
  
  
• No pressure to choose one format: You don’t have to decide right away whether to hold a funeral, memorial, or celebration. After gives you time to think, plan, or wait until it feels right.
  
  
• Flexibility for future memorials or celebrations: Once cremation is complete, you can gather your family weeks or months later in any setting that feels meaningful. Packages like the Summit plan even include tools to help you create a DIY memorial video or program.
  
  
• Online planning and transparent pricing: You can arrange everything from your phone or computer. You’ll see clear prices, get support when you need it, and avoid hidden fees or sales pressure.

Do you have more questions about memorial services or funerals? After’s caring team stands ready to help you learn about preplanning and guide you through the next steps. Check out all of the states that we serve here.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What Should an Obituary Include?

An obituary should include your loved one's full name, age, date of death, and place of death. These basic facts help readers understand who passed and when.

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Add details about their life story. This includes family members, achievements, and upcoming services. Personal touches like hobbies or favorite sayings bring your loved one's personality to life. These details offer comfort to readers.

How Long Should an Obituary Be?

An obituary can be a few sentences or several paragraphs long. Print obituaries stay brief due to space and cost limits. Online obituaries allow more room for storytelling and photos. Think about where you'll publish it and what details feel essential to share your loved one's story.

Can I Write My Own Obituary in Advance?

You can write your own obituary in advance. Many people choose to record their story and wishes so their family has clear guidance. Prewriting an obituary lets you share your own voice and highlight moments important to you. This reduces stress for your loved ones when the time comes.

How Do I Submit an Obituary to a Newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, visit the newspaper's website for submission guidelines. Many newspapers require you to fill out a form or email the text. Some work with funeral homes to handle the process. Be prepared for fees based on length or word count. Check deadlines if you want it published by a certain date.

What Is the Cost to Publish an Obituary?

The cost to publish an obituary varies by newspaper or website. Newspapers often charge by the line or word count. Costs range from $100 to several hundred dollars.

Online platforms like After often include obituary listings in cremation packages. This helps families share their loved one's story without extra cost.

Should I Mention Cremation or Funeral Details in the Obituary?

You can mention cremation or funeral details to help friends and family know how to pay their respects. You might say "Cremation has taken place" or include specific service information.

This helps avoid confusion and makes it clear how people can honor your loved one.

What If I Don’t Want a Public Obituary?

If you don't want a public obituary, you have other options. You can keep details within close circles or share information privately. You can skip an obituary altogether.

At After, our team can help you explore options that respect your wishes while still honoring your loved one’s memory in meaningful ways.